Where
were you in the summer of 1997? I was at Camp Dietler. I spent the
summer as the shooting sports director. The job required me to load
shotgun shells most of the day and in the afternoon, I taught kids
how to shoot a shotgun. A shotgun. I've never been very good at
shooting a shotgun. In fact, my staff used to joke that I could not
hit the broad side of a barn even if I was inside.
The
job also took me to Camp Tracy to get a certification. The
certification process, as you might well imagine, was pretty
intensive and definitely challenging. I mean, after all, you don't
want just anyone teaching kids to shoot guns, do you? I went through
the NRA certification program. Now, before I lose one half of you or
the other half or both, hear what I have to say. The NRA has the best
safety and training programs available. The NRA believes in gun
safety and they believe that everyone should learn how to use a gun
and use it safely. I found the training program inspiring. I also
found it to have qualities that transferred over into the rest of
life. Of all the merits of the training program I still use these two
items:
1)
Whatever you do and whatever you teach and to whom you teach it, you
must always, always, always use positive language. In the teaching
of shotgun shooting, for instance, I may say: “It's okay, you
anticipated the shot.” That is a much better statement than: “You
flinched.” In everything you do in life, would it not be refreshing
if everything everyone said was deliberate and positive? I'm an
emotional person and my language has never been polished, so this
advice resonates with me even to this day.
2)
What I learned as a shooting sports instructor certified by the NRA
is this: break everything up into small easily understandable parts.
When faced with the task of teaching somebody a difficult or complex
or multi-stepped skill (or sets of skills) it is best to break it
down into many small parts. This way, a person can learn in steps and
master those steps and eventually succeed on the whole. I have always
used this philosophy in my daily existence. In my situation,
substitute the words task or skill to job or goals.
In the
situation of being a writer, or in the case of these last several
weeks of my blog posts, being an effective writer, small easily
attainable tasks are much better than doing it all at once. For me, I
realize that so much of what I do as a writer does not really involve
writing at all. Researching markets, submitting work, and then
promoting that work isn't what I wanted when I started writing all
those years ago. I think there are a lot of writers in my position. I
think there are a lot of writers who write short stories or novels or
poetry and never try for publication. Perhaps they think a publisher
will come to them. Who knows?
What I
know is this: in the last several weeks, I have written more than
usual, I have submitted dozens of stories and I've already got a few
publications coming in 2017. I have stayed organized and I have made
lists with many smaller easily attainable goals.
This is how I did it. I took all of the
work that is publishable and put it in one file. I took all the work
that may be publishable after rewriting and polishing and I stuck in
another pile. I made a third pile of work that should never be put in
an unsolicited submission. I put the third pile, by far the largest,
as far away from me as possible. Instead of having a few hundred
short stories I now had about 80. Manageable.
I decided that there is no task other
than actually writing something that I could do for long periods of
time. So, the social media chores (LinkedIn, Blogging, and my
magazine), I do in small bits. Researching new markets, I do that in
small bits. Because I could do either of those activities for a good
ten or twelve hours on any given day and then I don't want to do it
again for months. Reading articles and looking for opportunities
happen mostly online anymore. Again, ten hours of this and then I
won't do it again.
Small parts: look for two possible
markets. Read two articles. Small tasks for all the social media
chores. Then turn off the computer and drink some coffee and write in
the old composition notebook. Then, repeat the process. This process
is focusing my attention on one specific activity at a time and for a
shorter duration of time. Instead of turning on the computer and
opening up all the windows for all the tasks at once and being
scattered, I'm just doing one thing at a time. And in doing so, I
feel a sense of accomplishment just scratching off things from the
list. Over the period of a few hours or a few days or a few weeks, I
am astounded at how much got done. You don't need the NRA's training
to do this.
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